What is Manifestation and how to manifest the relationship you want

From the international bestseller, The Secret, to praise by the likes of Oprah and Jim Carey, The Law of Attraction has taken the world by storm and has sculpted and changed the face of our lives forever. The Law of Attraction has been introduced to us by the school of New Thought but has lived on forever throughout space and time. From manifesting vast amounts of wealth to healing terminal illnesses, millions of people around the world have experienced great abundance. We’ve all heard the hype, but what exactly is the Law of Attraction?

The Law of Attraction is a philosophy and Universal law that centres around the concept that your thoughts govern and shape the outcome of your experiences if you truly believe. Positive thoughts and feelings will result in your desires and manifestations coming to life, no matter how large or small. The Law of Attraction works much in the same way that gravity does, it always has been and always will be. It exists in and governs all of our lives. 

We’ve all heard the expression you reap what you sow’, the Law of Attraction carries that exact same principle. The very fabric of the Universe is made from energy, everything from the stars in the sky to the cells of your skin. Your thoughts are a dense form of energy that gives life to your manifestations, allowing your desires to take shape and come to fruition. 

So how do you use the Law of Attraction to achieve your goals? How do you manifest love in a relationship? Can you actually manifest your dreams? How do you manifest someone? Ask, believe and receive. It’s the secret sauce, the formula that will allow you to connect to your higher power and manifest your dreams. First, in order to consciously manifest your desires, or manifest the relationship you want or even how to manifest putting yourself first,  we need to ‘ask’ the Universe. You need to be clear on what it is that you want, you wouldn’t walk into a restaurant and just order a drink, you’d specify exactly what kind of drink that you want. There's no magic spell or ritual that you need to perform, in order to ask you simply put the thought of what you want out into the Universe and it is done.

Believe. If you’re a Law of Attraction newbie you may need to adjust to the idea that you can manifest anything you want, especially if what you want is the opposite of your current reality. You’ll need to adopt a level of faith when it comes to manifesting. To build your confidence start by manifesting something small and distinctive so you can test the Law of Attraction for yourself. Remember, the Law of Attraction is like gravity, you don’t step outside of your house and worry about floating off into space so why do you worry about whether your manifestation will come true? You need to truly believe.

Receive. You’ve asked, you’ve believed and now you’ve received the very thing that you’ve asked for. Your faith in the power of the Law of Attraction and your own magic has resulted in you manifesting your dreams! Always remember to express your gratitude to the Universe for giving you the very thing that you desired.

So, how do you manifest the relationships you want?

You’ve come here for a reason, to fix or create your desired relationship. One of the biggest reasons that many people seek to understand the Law of Attraction is so that they can manifest an ex back, or to manifest your ideal partner, or simple to have the relationship of your dreams , or to find their soulmate or repair a broken relationship with a friend or family member. Our connections with the people in our lives add value to our experiences in this world. We all want to feel loved, understood and respected and it’s important that we enrich our existence with people that are deserving of our time and energy.

Like everything else, the Law of Attraction can bring you your dream soulmate, dream relationship, heal broken partnerships and restore old relationships like brand new. It doesn’t matter how bad the relationship is nor does it matter if you’ve had nothing but terrible lovers in the past, there is no challenge that is too big for the Universe. You can have the perfect partner who makes you feel like a million dollars, you can renew your marriage and connect with your partner and you can add more joy to your friendships. All you need is to discover your power, true believe, and to follow these steps.

Be Specific 

You want the dream relationship but what does that look like to you? Does that mean that you want to spend more time with that person? Do you want more compassion from your loved ones? The Universe is always listening out for our desires but in order to effectively manifest what we want we need to truly understand exactly what that is. Write out a list and be as specific as possible. If you want to fix an existing relationship, treat it like a new partnership, this is your chance to start fresh and create the relationship of your dreams. If you want to manifest someone new into your life then write out exactly how you want them to be, from their looks to the way that they make you feel and your shared interests. Writing out a list is a way for you to collect the blocks that you need to build your dreams.

Adjust

 So you’ve gotten specific and now it’s time to make the necessary adjustments in your life for your new relationship. In order to create something outside of ourselves, sometimes we need to make changes within. If you’re having problems in your marriage and you want to improve the relationship replace negative thoughts about your partner with positive ones. Now is the time to be affirmative and to instate positive energy into your situation.

 If you want to manifest your soulmate take a good look at your lifestyle. Is there room in your life for a new partner? Feng Shui teaches us to sleep on one side of the bed if we want to invite someone into it. The same idea can be applied to our closets, is it full of your things? Take this time to have a clear-out and make some space in your wardrobe for your dream partner. Make room in your life so you can manifest new love into it.

Self Love  

You want an improved relationship but what about the one with yourself? How do you feel about the wonderful, beautiful, light-filled being that is ‘you’? You are the most important person in your life. From the beginning to the end you’re inside of this body and you should love every ounce of your being. Take this time to fall in love with yourself and remind the world why you are so special. When you build upon your self-love and rediscover yourself it becomes easier to manifest the relationships that you desire because you’re already content with the level of love in your life. When you stop focusing on the lack of positive relationships in your life and find fulfillment within yourself you can manifest abundance in great droves and not use people to fill voids in your life. Contentment is the key that lies within. 

Feel It

The Law of Attraction answers to the nature of our thoughts and our feelings so if it's love and healthy relationships that you desire then fill your life with exactly that! Listen to love songs and watch romantic movies, feel the loving vibrations! If you want companionship, start to feel grateful whenever you see a group of friends in your day to day life, because your manifestation is coming true. If you want to improve upon an existing relationship start affirming to yourself how amazing it has become and feel it! Your emotional state is one of the most powerful tools that you have, not only does it guide you on how you feel but it allows you to shift your feeling state and boost your vibration to the next level so that you can manifest your dreams. Do everything that makes you happy. Live it, breathe it, and feel it.

Let Go

 You’ve followed all the steps and you’re waiting for your manifestation to materialize. Have faith in the Universe and release all thoughts of worry and anxiety. Let the Universe do its work, fussing and worrying about your manifestation only prevents the magic from happening. If you’ve asked the Universe and you’re relaxed and feeling positive about your desires then don’t worry! You have asked, you believed and now you shall receive. The Law of Attraction is magic that lies within you, you are a co-creator and are in complete control of your life. Don’t worry about the outcome, let the chips fall where they may. 

The Universe is full of infinite possibilities and abundance. You are the author of your life, so pick up the pen and write the story that you’ve always wanted. Now that you’ve discovered the secret it’s time to live your best life and manifest all the love and friendship that you deserve. Ask, believe and you shall receive.

Light and love.

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